What are you looking for? Who are you looking for?
I think those are two questions worth asking in a time when we are bombarded with suggestions1 about what we should want, what we should aim for, what we should look for (‘you might also like’… ‘recommended for you’… ‘for you’… ‘others also bought…’, etc.)
So, what are you looking for? Can you pause for a minute and ask yourself this question before you pay for something? What do you think the thing you’re about to buy is going to give you that you don’t already have? What are you really looking for?
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I’ll go first:
I’m looking for a way to create/connect a powerful grid made of men and women all over the world who share a common mindset about who we are as beings, what we are here to give and offer and how we communicate who we are in the world.
No, I’m not starting a cult!
Rather, I see this as a potent energetic network that would work like a mycelium — a subtle way to communicate with each other.
Within this mindset, we take ourselves seriously in our commitment, but we also cultivate a sense of childlike play and tune in our innate genius to creatively solve daily dilemmas.
I’m looking for individuals who value a sense of critical thinking (i.e. you don’t believe everything people say, you are not just a follower, you question everything that doesn’t feel right).
Beings who are aware that:
1. there is more to “reality” than what we can see
2. we can hold in our hands anything we can hold in our mind
3. whatever resistance we’re encountering on the way, we know that the problem can’t be solved at the level of consciousness on which it was created
4. we are ready to take action to shift life line and fortify our intuitive intelligence
I’m interested in creating conversations about what really matters (you know, when we are on our death bed and look back?) in the age of influence (you know, when it’s so easy to absorb other people’s values without realizing it?). Connecting back to our own prosperity codes.
I’m into cultivating a strong sense of self-respect to eradicate feeling small and powerless and bringing tools to create a regret-free life. Because I believe we are so powerful. The initiation of motherhood — giving birth at home without pain medication — taught me this (and nobody can take this away from me).
I’m not interested in gossiping. But I’m into deep talks. I’m into moving mountains. I know my words create my world, and I want to use them in a way that serve me and others best.
It’s a common mindset, it’s a philosophy, it’s a bunch of principles that serve us as tools to navigate our lives.
Now, let me know: what are you looking for? Who are you looking for?
… or hit reply to this email. It goes to my eyes only.
Bless you,
Ardas Chandra
PS: I was brainstorming about what to create next, but I thought I first tell you what and who I’m looking for.
PPS: If you read the whole thing, you’re my people. Whether you are already living this mindset or aspiring to it. I know it in my heart!
those are called ‘heterosuggestions’: suggestions from another person. Best advice: don’t believe anything people say about you.
I love what you said about creating conversations about what truly matters. I think we need more of that, or less of all the other things so we can receive those deeper things more.
What I have been thinking about lately is that I want less. There are so many distractions, there is so much noise. And I think so many of us are unconsciously living at a pace that isn’t working for us. I want gentle, quiet. Places that remind me of who I am and that invite me to go at my own pace. Anything that reminds me
Thank you for this simple yet powerful message! I’m looking for connection, expansion, simplicity, authenticity, freedom to be myself and feeling understood 🤍