Where Have You Been All My Life

Style Edit: one cotton scarf in 14 pictures

Oct 19, 2023

Welcome to The Light Letter, my ongoing publication. Today's story is a Style Edit featuring a big cotton scarf as the main character. If this doesn't resonate with you today, feel free to explore the Archive later.

While walking home from the playground today, the words 'Where Have You Been All My Life' struck me. I was wearing an incredibly versatile cotton scarf from Skall. It's 90x90cm in size and made of 100% organic cotton voile (providing a non-slip alternative to silk) and let me show you ways to embrace it in your daily style. What matters is the size: 90x90cm is perfect, and the fabric: cotton voile is thinner than other cotton!!

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picture that: me, asking the scarf: “where have you been all my life?”

Soul Expression: wearing the blue scarf around your neck

Your words shape your world, and the throat energy center (fifth chakra) embodies the energy of your unique expression, your personal way of translating your experience of the world. Be yourself in all aspects of life to let your authenticity shine, allowing others to benefit from your true self. Does your communication align with your intentions? Do the outcomes reflect your spoken words? Is the other person truly hearing your message? Do you keep your word?

Because how you do anything is how you do everything: and the way you dress speaks volumes about who you are, what you're expressing, and the kind of communication you intend to create with the outside world. We often think we're dressing our bodies, but in reality, we're dressing our souls—the essence of our being. What if a 90x90cm square of voile cotton could serve as a catalyst for self-expression and being heard? Our throat chakra can open and expand and open when we consciously introduce this light blue colour into our lives. Energy tip: avoid wearing red near your neck to prevent anger-infused communication.

Two words: Projection Power!

My uniform when working from home. Scarf as a pop of colour + I adore this SKALL cashmere sweater: they don’t pile, they are so warm - I’m wearing a size L, love a good oversize - 40% off right now (be quick), cropped white denim (I’m 1,60m) from Arket, heeled sandals Elise from Aeyde

Scarf over a ‘boyfriend’ turtleneck sweater from Soft Goat (wearing a size M, it will be our 3rd winter together) + cropped white denim

Going to the groceries store. Scarf as a wind shield, truly life changing (Hamburg wind is cold) + my every day COS crossbody bag in beige (I use it every day, keeps me hands free, so good with a toddler, it fits all that I need for a few hours away from home) + vintage mens car coat from Burberry (love this one ‘Mary Coat’ from SKALL) + basket from Mallorca

Details. The blue of the scarf against the brown of the bag + the warmest sweater (alternative here for 225€) = cozy me.

Aura Hack: wearing the scarf as a bandeau top

Bandeau tops have a special charm, serving as an ideal first layer or a second skin. However, achieving the perfect fit is often a challenge, as they can slip and require constant adjustment. But with a voile cotton scarf, those worries are a thing of the past. Securely knot it in the back, and thanks to its non-slip nature, it remains in place. Here's a little-known fact: (organic) cotton is a more harmonious choice for your aura than silk.

Keep it simple: Scarf as a bandeau top + cropped white denim

SKALL Edgar shirt in light cream as a jacket (left open, wearing a size 34) + the scarf as a bandeau top + cropped white denim (shirt alternative for 69€ here)

Wisdom at the Waist: speaking from the navel to create impact

If you aim to make a profound impact with your words, there's a secret: speak from your navel. This valuable insight stems from my kundalini teacher training. Placing the scarf at your navel center can heighten your awareness of this vital energy point. It's a simple yet powerful practice worth trying out for yourself. Speaking from the navel can elevate your communication and leave a lasting impression on those who hear you.

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“The purpose of communication is to make another person hear what you are saying. The purpose of communication is not to make another person hear what you want to say. The other person may hear what you want to say totally differently.” Yogi Bhajan

This delicate feminine touch: and the beige of the car coat + the blue of the scarf !!!

To make a all cream outfit a bit more interesting, try this. Crinkled top (wearing a size S) + the scarf + Muji skirt (beautiful alternative here, if not yet sold out, it’s COS Atelier, wool and Tencel mix)

It’s double knit season: long sleeve sweater as a scarf, scarf as a belt-skirt. Be creative. Create some Z (diagonal) energy. Short sleeve sweater (sold out, but here is a good one) + long sleeve sweater (40% off) from SKALL + mini jersey skirt from ARKET

SKALL blouse (sold out and obviously not ironed, oops) + the scarf as a belted detail + cropped white denim = I feel put together.

Crinkled top (size S) + cropped white denim (size 25) + Aeyde sandals + the scarf as a central piece.

The Crown of Confidence

“Crown yourself.” Those two words encapsulate the essence of graceful living. In an upcoming piece for The Light Letter, I’ll delve into the secrets of growing long and strong hair (our antennas to the world). Feel free to share your inquiries about radiance / hair growth questions here.

The scarf as a headband — a 55x55 cm scarf would also work here

Wow! I trust these 14 images have vividly conveyed the value of playing dress up in your daily existence. I had fun putting this piece together.

I dearly appreciate your time and attention.

Infinite blessings,

Ardas Chandra