No gatekeeping!

Life is a buffet—take what you need and leave the rest.

Nov 10, 2024

I won’t gatekeep anything that has made my life better, more hopeful, or more joyful from you… and I’m inspired to share some of my best discoveries with you today.

Greetings from Dubai - wearing: best shorts ever - almost sold out, oversized long sleeve t-shirt, black swimsuit, brown leather sandals

The Song

A good playlist should be able to tell a story, and I know a good story when I hear it. Indulge in the Tibi Track IDs 11.2024 Spotify playlist. The last song has been my companion — indeed, '“a sentimental reminder that on the flip side of every dark moment is one of light”.

The Perfect White T-Shirt

I’ve been searching forever for the perfect white T-shirt and finally found The One from Massimo Dutti. It’s so good that if I were to design my own line of white T-shirts, I’d use it as the prototype and tell the factory, 'Make it exactly like this!'

It's a short-sleeve T-shirt with a high neckline (great for layering under a crew neck sweater), made from 100% cotton with a beautiful weight that feels luxurious. The length is ideal—it can be tucked in if I want, but also hits just right if I don’t. The color (Ref. 6203/919) is a perfect white that doesn’t look cheap but isn’t too ivory either, all for just under 30 euros. I bought it in XS, and I don't regret it. I also got it in brown (Ref. 6203/919) because having options is good.

This Edition of This Book

Kahlil Gibran’s The Prophet is a philosophical and poetic journey through life’s universal themes—love, freedom, work, and death—offering timeless wisdom on living a meaningful, compassionate, and harmonious life.

This edition makes a beautiful gift for a friend or family member. The paper is perfectly weighted, and the text is printed in a serene blue, accompanied by Gibran’s original illustrations. Simply divine. You might want to get two copies: one to keep and one to give away spontaneously

*The Prophet,* Kahlil Gibran, foreword by Rupi Kaur, ed. Penguin Classics, Hardcover, 2020

The Softest Loafers

If it’s still loafer season where you are, consider this pair for less than 100€… And if you’re already fully into boots, remember that spring will come back around—and by then, these loafers will likely be out of stock since they’re from Massimo Dutti.

The pair of loafers I chose is incredibly soft, light, and has given me zero blisters. They look even better in person than they do online, and they’re true to size. For added warmth this season, I’ve added lambswool insoles, which make them even cozier.

This Moshi Cushion

Yes, it’s from Muji—a Moshi cushion. And yes, you need one! It’s incredibly soft, stretchy, and just like a moshi. It comes in several colors, but I find the lime green adds a nice pop of brightness to those early 5 p.m. sunsets… you do you!

3 Writing Prompts for The Week

Choose one of these prompts and put pen to paper.

What do you need most right now?
Write a list of everything that would nourish or support you.
What’s holding back your authentic self-expression?
Reflect on where you may be gatekeeping or hiding parts of yourself, and explore why.
What would make the week ahead successful?
Define your goals and create a checklist to set your intentions.